10.23.09
quote(S) of the day
i came across two very nice quotes tonight, both by unknown author some more, yang sungguh berkaitan with how i’m feeling at the moment.
“Giving up doesn’t always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.”
“There are times when I cant decide whether to see you or not, I want to see you because I miss you but there are times when I dont want to see you because everytime I do, the fact that you dont see me the way that I see you hurts me even more …”
04.10.09
quote of the day
“Things which you do not hope happen more frequently than things which you do hope.”-Titus Maccius Plautus
so i think the conclusion here is, don’t just sit there and hope, do something about it! 
01.06.09
quote of the day
“The first step to getting all the things you want out of life is this : Decide what you want.” -Ben Stein
01.04.09
quote of the day
“Many of us spend half our time wishing for things we could have if we didn’t spend half our time wishing.” -Unknown
09.07.08
itsthatpostagain!
life lesson taught me that it is impossible to satisfy everyone and it is even more impossible to expect everyone to satisfy us.
06.13.08
quote of the day
i love brooke davis from one tree hill. she’s just so sexy and beautiful. and she also taught me this : don’t cry for a guy, let a guy cry for you. cause girls give and forgive, but guys get and forget. i totally agree with her on that.
03.12.08
h.a.p.p.i.n.e.s.s.
“I think I’m afraid to be happy because whenever I get too happy, something bad always happen.”-Charlie Brown
i really love this quote. i just realize it has been a while since i last felt really happy. how do you define happiness anyways? i tried looking up for a clear definition of happiness and you know what? i got lots of different answers. but my particular favourite would definitely be this one :
Happiness is a state of which you are unconscious, of which you are not aware. The moment you are aware that you are happy, you cease to be happy…You want to be consciously happy; the moment you are consciously happy, happiness is gone. -Jiddu Krishnamurti 1895-1986: Penguin Krishnamurti Reader (1970)
many people put on a fake smile on their faces…to show the world that they are truly happy…but have we ever wondered what really lies behind the facade? some people can make you so happy at one moment, but can also cause you so much misery at the next moment. but that’s life i guess. i don’t deny there may be people out there who are trully happy…good for them. but even so, how long did it take for them to achieve that happiness? or how long will their present happiness last? if you’ve watched the movie Pursuit of Happyness, you can see how long and difficult it took him to be finally happy in the end. so i guess, it’s just a matter of time. thus, i think i won’t be TOO happy with anything anymore, just content would be enough.
